No matter how much we deny it, we do end up considering the person’s hair, looks, and height. We are normally attracted to the exterior persona of a person just as we are towards their inner persona, sometimes more or less. One can have good six-pack abs but can be horrible in communicating. In the same way, if someone looks timid and is short, they can be a quirky, amazing person underneath. Don’t look for a person’s outer qualities and chose them over their inner ones.